Commitment Phobia.

yeah. just feel like sharing some thoughts on relationship stuffs. it doesn't mean that i'm having this phobia okay. I mean, ahem, i admit i had/have more less abit of it but not that severe la..

SINGLES always proud of being singles and yet nevertheless always hear them griping,

• about not having some one to be their last call of the night and be the first thought in the morning. (*this applies to men too, lazy wanna put he/she. :p) ;

• not having those 5 hours conversation that end with 'no you hang up first' (no you hang up kinda love~~ lol, reminds me of my baby shayne. :p) ;

• not receiving roses/chocolates on Valentines ;

• for not being able to experience intimate moments and feels the rush of adrenalin and wondering 'what's coming up next' with the special one ;

• no cuddling or hugss that never fail to reach you whenever you needed them etc etc.

haha.. i sounds so desperate la.. :p nah, to be completely honest to ourselves la, perhaps it is not that we enjoy being single, it might be the fact that we are afraid of not being single. right?? we are afraid that all the advantages of being single have to be shunned off.
In other words, it may called it as commitment phobia..

Commitment phobia, as the term itself implies, is the fear or avoidance of committing in to a relationship. *copied from some web* :p

what causes the existence of this phobia??

one of my most common opinion why these people fear to start a new relationship is because of bad experience. Disappointment, depression, devastation in the previous relationship such being cheated, disloyal, betrayed etc are the main factors that causes them to afraid of taking new risks. I'm grateful that i did not came across this kind situation, so far.. *touchwood* haha. but i've heard alot of it from people surrounding me. Adultery is the most common nowadays.. sigh. why on earth people wanna get married and ended up couldn't control their pennis (opps.. this applies to pussy too. lol)and doing things that hurt the one they loved the most? where are all the vows that you shouted your lungs out infront of every1 during your wedding? sigh.. love is just too.. fragile..

that's why ppl are so afraid of being committed in a relationship nowadays. falling in love is sooooo easy, but when everything turned out just not the way it supposed to be, things will eventually become nasty.

But, but! not every1 who reluctant to embrace a new relationship were let down in the past ya. some of them might taking it as a gambling. you know like buy big or small? small?? okay! ting~~ open it, it's big!! so you lost. blek. these people always think that there's always someone better/perfect or more compatible with you. you know la.. humans are greedy! and they do not wan to regret by making the wrong decision. hmm.. it's good in a way la.. but cannot la keep your admirers waiting and waiting.. right? lol..

so, people, are you having commitment phobia?? which categories you fall into??
wan me to tell first?? wan meh? really wanna know ar?? shy leh.. hahha. okla.. tell you all la...
i'm in...................... *for me to know and for you to guess..* haha.. bye for now..

and and, if you guys got any new points let me know ok? hehe..